Phil: "Claire I know you've got your methods, but so do I, and I'm sorry but I'm not a micro-manager. Trust me, I can provide Luke with the tools and guidance he needs with out smothering him."
Claire: "You think I smother our children?"
Phil: "It's not your fault honey, mother is part of the word. You never hear of anyone being sfathered to death."
--Starry Night” (1.18)